The Ultimate Bridesmaid Checklist

Congratulations, You’re A Bridesmaid!

Being chosen to be a bridesmaid is a huge honour, you are one of the bride's nearest and dearest, and she has chosen you to stand by her side on her wedding day. Being a bridesmaid is a great role which also comes with great responsibility. From dress shopping to preparing for the wedding day, and everything in between, here's our ultimate checklist and tips for every step of being a bridesmaid. 

 

Help With The Wedding Tasks

The bride has so much to plan, so help her out by offering your assistance to help her tick off her to do list. From helping with the RSVP invites, to researching venues, florists, or creating mood boards to inspire her colour schemes, there are plenty of ways to help plan the perfect wedding.

 

Plan The Bridal Shower & Bachelorette Party

Bridesmaids play an important role in the planning and executing of the events leading up to the wedding. Bridesmaids can help assist with the bridal shower and the bachelorette party by helping with decorations, activities and by organising the overall day. 

 

Finding The Bridesmaid Dresses

Each wedding is different, some brides will organise a day out with their bridesmaids to shop together, while others may provide a guide to have their bridesmaid choose their own dress. It is important to be mindful of the bride's vision and timeline if you will be shopping for your own bridesmaid dress for the wedding day. 

 

Attend The Bridal Dress Shopping

There is no better way to support the bride to be than helping her find her dream dress. This could mean a day out shopping with the bride, bridesmaids can help with suggestions or provide support on the shopping day. 

 

Attend All Key Pre Wedding Events

Whether it’s the engagement party, bridal shower or the rehearsal dinner, bridesmaids are expected to attend all of the events in support of the bride. The most important pre-wedding event is the rehearsal, you will need to know where to assemble, enter, stand and exit during the ceremony. 

 

Offer Emotional Support

As a bridesmaid, you have been carefully chosen because you share a space in the bride’s heart and she wants to be surrounded by you during her special moment. Check in with her throughout the planning process and let her know she can lean on you for support. Be sensitive to her feelings and if she needs, offer her space to let her emotions out. 

 

Pack An Emergency kit

It is important to be prepared if you need any emergency items, so pack a small kit that you can take in case it comes in handy. Essentials include:

• bobby pins
• tissues
• stain remover pen
• mints
• mini sewing kit
• painkillers
• blister pads & band aids 

 

Assist The Bride On The Wedding Day

A lot of the time the bride and bridesmaids will spend the morning of the wedding together getting their hair and makeup done, and getting ready for the day. As a bridesmaid it is important to help the bride with any last minute preparations before the wedding starts. Spend time together and make the moment special. 

 

Be Photo Ready

Check your ensemble before you begin the ceremony - your dress is perfect, your shoes are comfortable, your bouquet is ready and your hair falls where it should. 

 

Help The Ceremony Run Smoothly

As the wedding ceremony commences it is important to remember a few key details. These include your entrance and exit cues, holding you bouquet at the right height and to stand confidently and smile.  

 

Time To Mingle

As the newlyweds are busy with wedding photos and greetings, help to keep guests entertained. Introduce yourself and others to the family and friends who may have not met before and direct them to refreshments. 

 

Look Out For The Bride & Groom 

With so much happening, the newlyweds may forget to eat or take a break. Make sure they have a plate of food and a drink in hand so they can fully enjoy their special day.

 

Execute A Stress Free Send Off

At the end of the night, assist with gathering gifts, packing personal items, and ensuring everything is in order. Make sure you round out the bouquets, wedding gifts, and any decorations that were personally provided. If needed, help guests find their way to transportation.

 

& Most Importantly, Enjoy The Day

The utmost important part of any wedding is to enjoy it! Now is the chance to celebrate with the bride and groom. A wedding is the best event to dance, laugh and cherish the memories that you are apart of.